Perfect match is all we need to live happily. The perfect school, the perfect house, the perfect date, the perfect job, the perfect relationship and the perfect-everything! Having your perfect match can make feel ultimate happiness.
You want a perfect partner and you’d like to be one too. Let’s not forget that you and your partner are human, you can’t be perfect. But yes, your imperfections could fit together perfectly! How do you know if you’ve found someone who could be perfect for you?
Perfect match? You can spot them easily in the movies — the couple that’s so clearly meant for each other. But in real life, it can be harder to detect a perfect match. That’s especially true when that “match” involves us. Sometimes we’re so wrapped up in our relationships that we don’t even ask ourselves if we’re actually a good fit.
Relationship expert Talia Goldstein, CEO of white glove matchmaking service Three Day Rule, told INSIDER that there are four major signs that a couple is a good match. If a relationship demonstrates each of these attributes, Goldstein explained, that’s how you know it’s built to last.
PERFECT MATCH WOULD BE:
- You travel the same way
One of the easiest ways to tell if you’re a good match with your partner is to plan a trip together.
“A good match is people who are willing and wanting to travel the same way,” Goldstein said.
If one of you wants to hop in a RV and road trip to Mexico, while the other wants to fly first class and stay at a give star resort, that’s a sign that you aren’t a good fit.
“It’s indicative of your lifestyle,” Goldstein said. “It could lead to problems down the road.”
For example, these lifestyle differences could come into play when it’s time to buy a house or pick an education path for your children, the expert explained.
“If you have a really narrow mind about the way that you travel, you probably have that same mindset in other aspects of your life,” she added.
- You have common interests that you love doing together.
It may seem intuitive, but a great way to tell if you are a good match with a person is to determine whether you have common interests.
That doesn’t mean that you just like the same sort of art or listen to the same sort of music. Instead, good matches not only enjoy similar things — they like doing those things together.
“There should be at least two or three things you really like to do together,” Goldstein said. “It should be about spending time together.”
And so, if you’re a couple who, for instance, enjoys going on long walks together, playing board games together or watching the same sport games together, you’re likely a good match.
- Your relationship has the right balance.
Most of the successful pairings Goldstein has witnessed involves people that strike a perfect balance, where one of them is “the star” while the other is more of “the rock.”
“I found that the majority of my success stories fall into those categories, where sometimes one of them is outgoing and the life of the party, where the other is more stable and supportive,” Goldstein said.
People with different energies tend to complement each other, whereas those who are both super outgoing and both extremely introverted don’t always go the distance.
“If you have the yin and the yang, they balance each other out,” the expert explained. “I’ve found that balance works really well in a relationship.”
- You’re with someone who makes you feel good about yourself.
It seems like common sense — you should be with someone who makes you feel like you’re at your best. But of course, a lot of people end up in relationships where they don’t really feel like themselves.
“Relationships were you truly feel like you’re the best version of yourself — that’s the best way to see if you’re a good match,” Goldstein said.
Being in a relationship where you feel like you mean that you don’t have to stretch to come up with topics to talk about.
It’s also when you feel at home with their group of friends, or feel comfortable lounging around in your pajamas with the other person.
- You get good news, and they’re the first person you think of
Not only are you thinking of them most of the time, they’re also the first person you want to share good news with. Even if they’re not present, you’d text/call them. And everyone else follows. he same goes for bad news
You’re worried over it, and need to get it out of your system. The first person that pops into your head is them. You know they’d never mind being your vent out. Furthermore, you find consolation and comfort in them like no one else. They may not even have anything helpful to say, but just laying it out in front of them is relief enough.
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